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Showing posts with label farewells. Show all posts
Showing posts with label farewells. Show all posts

Monday, April 30, 2012

Farewells!

By definition Farewell is an act of parting or of marking someone's departure, which I do not intend to explain.


As March ended, it culminated the affiliation of a brilliant officer with Hashoo Foundation: Ms Shrifa.  Now, as April is ending, Mr. Ameer has set out for a challenging career opportunity. In professional environment the setting for farewell is different than we had at college. The short homage ceremony is planned and enjoyed, and people continue with their jobs.


At Sharifa's moment, loads of tears were released. Managers, officers and interns lined up with their own cascade. I saw male colleagues' inevitable urge for building an obstruction around the pool in their eyes. Some men went up to the extent of mimicry, to show as if they were crying and successfully saved their "dignity" by not letting tear pour out of their eyes. With Ameer it was quite the reverse. Ameer seemed to struggle with constructing a barrier around his eyes as he listened to the emotional tributes from his colleagues. Meanwhile, the rest of the staff appeared happy on the variety in lunch and tried to give an impression that the departing officer will be missed by putting on artificial and imposed sad face.


Their colleagues said that Sharifa is hardworking, focused and ambitious lady with strong determination who went against all odds to be a working woman. Ameer was labeled with responsible, proactive and respectful gentlemen. The epic moment was when  Kamal refered to Ameer as a USB that could fit in every computer system (department and programs) without getting corrupt or damaging the host's file.


I realize that farewell is just part of life, and continues as long as we live. You join a school or college and in the end its a farewell. You are part of a society, forum and group and in the end there is a departure. The tears, cheers and goodbyes are stitched to human nature. To be honest I shed tears at many of my goodbye moments. Because the takeoffs took me further away from good people. The emotions are for the good things you fear loosing.


Hence, it is the trace of your existence that remains with people and all other things dematerialize. Best of luck my first batch of working colleagues. :)
CD Hashoo F. (Ali) presenting appreciation token for Amir,
 in presence of HF Staff 



Saturday, August 1, 2009

The Last days AGIAN!

Back in 2007, I recruited from the West Hall after a stay of 2 years. It was a tough moment to leave the 97 # room. I remember clearly, when there were only 2 or 3 of us left in the end, after every one had left. And, when it was my turn, inevitably I felt cold drops of tear on my cheeks that made their path down to my neck. I could not stop it, and nor did I bothered to do so. There ran a shiver in my body when it was time to say good-by to friendly service men. (Even today in Gricewold I miss them).

Then it was over, I didn’t understand it whether it was attachment to West Hall that made me feel sad on leaving it, or was there a feeling of regret. Or it was just a ritual or copy of what I had experienced at Shah Karim hostel genuinely back in 2005. But, there was something.

Then after the year 2007, I was a nomad. I waved 5 goodbyes in 1 & haif year and they were all as simple as changing a cloth. No hard or soft feelings and no tears. By now I started to think that I have become mature to curb any such feelings at time of partition.

But, here I am, in the midst of yet another climax. I got entry in Gricewold for 6 months and got a ticket to live life to its fullest within the campus. Far from the awe and wows of the outer world, and more importantly with my best friends, Bahawal & Rizwan. I am 3 days away from the final farewell and 1 of my friends, Bahawal, has already left. People have started departing and I am yet to go through it, through the same eternal feeling, amalgamation of happiness & sadness, flashback of all the glorious moments, snapshots of all the little quarrels, and the bruising of my heart…

Yet another Farewell…

But, now I think, the ‘final farewell’ will make one complete, leaving the hearts of others bruised.
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